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They would rather know now, shed a tear or two and start working ASAP to move out, move up, move on or move forward so they don’t waste more time doing the same thing and not getting the outcomes they want. All your single girlfriends AND male friends should read this. Why can’t our wonderful Christian sisters find their Boaz, David or Joseph? Many Christian ladies want a man that “knows where he is going”…but God’s men usually don’t have a clue: Think about that for a moment.(Rom ) Don’t look for a man who already has the best laid plans.Look for one who knows how to follow directions from the best planner. Many ladies approach relationships from the perspective of “Low Risk, High Reward”: Meaning, they want to get the absolute best man with the least amount of risk.She worked really hard and even when she got the attention of the “well established guy with the sensitive heart” she didn’t stop working.She took the break that he offered her and went back to work.I’ve gotten a lot of one-on-one questions about this from BOTH MEN AND WOMEN and I figured it was time to write about it. As a daughter of God, he is working out your story beautifully, so bask in that.
I have met some who had it all but God insisted they give it up to go and further the gospel. Many ladies forget that good Christian men look for women who share similar non-romantic, non-spiritual values: Sure he should be romantic and sure he must share those spiritual values but eerrmmm ladies…these Christian brothers are looking for those other character traits as well that speak to the OPERATION of your possible lives together.Soooo God wants to take us somewhere …but I have no idea where. In fact, I’ve just been anointed King…buuutttt I’m kinda living in the bushes right now and on the run from the King I’m supposed to replace.” Or Joseph.“Look Jill, God has shown me many dreams that people will bow down to me and I’ll be a great leader.I’ll tell you probably like no one has told you before.So the tone may be a bit direct not because I am brash but because I am writing to Women not girls and one thing I know about women is that contrary to the opinion that they want you to beat around the bush, when it comes to things that are really important, they want you to tell them like it is.